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Wat is Love & Excitement:

When two people first fall in love, it is one of the most exciting moments of their lives. It can be once-in-a-lifetime event that is incomparable to anything else, motivating them to plan a life together and make their commitment at the altar.

For some however, love eventually loses its luster. They get disillusioned because they see their love changing. It doesn’t seem to be what it was when they felt so good about each other. They find it difficult to accept that love does not remain static, that it is a process. Love is always in a state of becoming something more different today than it was yesterday.

There are those who refuse to accept the reality that the process is changing in their relationship. They continue to look back and yearn for those action packed days when love was so exciting and exhilarating.

They find it hard to accept that those incredible moments of yesterday might be gone forever. They are faced with real changes, some unpleasant resulting into tough negotiations. There are pressures on the relationship that stem from work, relatives and even health problems that come unexpectedly. They too can cause love to change.

Though some of these changes are hard to swallow, they need not work against love. Love is never static. It doesn’t sit there like a pretty picture on the shelf. Some of us get our love into trouble because we insist on loving and being loved one way, our way. We find it difficult to accept the changing ways of love.

Love needs to move ahead at its own pace. It must find its own way. Love can be quietly exciting as it moves from one stage to the other. As it becomes more secure, more sure of itself, love takes on new characteristics, new features that early love can never have.

It is this continuous evolution that keeps lovers happily together for a lifetime. It is the changing landscape as the lovers travel love’s road that keeps them interested and motivated to remain together, grow together and make a life together. Far from envying excited new found love, mature lovers can only smile and hope that young lovers can be as lucky as they are.